There's a lot of activity down there - especially during the REM sleep phase - and it's actually quite similar to that of a man's penis. But that doesn't mean that while you get your eight hours beauty sleep, your vagina is resting on its laurels. Oh no. What's more, your vagina's nocturnal activity is actually quite similar to that of a man's penis. The technical term for it is 'nocturnal clitoral tumescence', whereas in men, it's called 'nocturnal penile tumescence' - though you may typically refer it as "morning glory". What we do know is it's a spontaneous swelling of the clitoris during sleep or when waking up. This is believed to occur especially during the REM phase of sleep and is connected to the absence of norepinephrine - which is what prevents blood flow to the genitalia ans prevents erections - during REM.
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It's a sex position that's not quite a sex position: Swaddling is the terms for when two partners agree to fall asleep in the midst of penetration. That can mean penis-in-vagina, penis-in-anus, strap-on-in-vagina, et cetera, et cetera. Any penetration combo you can think of, happening consensually while you sleep, is swaddling. That's a lot to take in pun intended. Read on to learn all the nitty gritty details about the sorta sex position you've probably never heard about. The goal of swaddling isn't to have active, penetrative sex for eight hours. It's more about fostering a deep, intimate connection, says Sandi Kaufman , a licensed sex therapist in New York City. She adds that people who practice swaddling describe it as "sweetly romantic, wonderfully relaxing, and highly erotic. According to Kaufman, the two easiest positions in which to swaddle are with one partner laying on top of the other, or in a spoon position. Each option has its ups and downs: Sleeping underneath your partner may not be doable, while swaddling in a spoon position means any sudden movement may cause the penis to slip out hence ending the swaddle.
Top definition. Swaddling unknown. When two lovers fall asleep or cuddle whilst one is penetrating the other. No thrusting is involved. It is impossible to perform swaddling for more than 30 seconds. If you can, you might be with the wrong gender or person. Swaddling sex. A sex act when the man puts his penis into the woman's vagina and then they simply fall asleep for the remainder of the night. The act of a man falling a sleep with his dick in a woman's vagina. Swaddling has become a sexual sensation, as well as cultural, largely in, though not limited to, countries on the northern hemisphere.
In my younger days, I drank. A lot. Jake and I were together off and on for about four years. Thinking back to when we did have sex together is very much a blur, because we were always THAT drunk. At this point in my life, I had an amazingly high tolerance for alcohol. I could drink two bottles of wine on my own and pass a sobriety test with flying colors. When we got back up on the bed, I was lying on my stomach and Jake was on top of me, inside me, as we enjoyed our drunken sex. Then something happened that had never happened before: He began to snore in my ear. I tried to remain calm.