Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. Did everything in my power to support him, whether it be financial, emotional, etc. Mormons are very particular about dressing. We have not been intimate in 6 weeks now. Look for girls in your singles ward. There will always be difference between spouses.




Great post and so very true. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. It means that before anything else, you have to be clear in saying that you want to date a Mormon girl. Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so. It was totally eye-opening.
How to Win Over a Guy. How do you maintain a healthy balance with relationships and work when your partner has a more demanding profession than you. We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it. I only hate one thing in the planet, and that's the Mormon church. There is the possibility that she will wise up over time, but not likely. The Church encourages people to be a good influence on one another, and she will probably expect you to dress well for her. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards.
Maybe you do, too. My husband is a surgical oncologist. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. Funny thing is he told me when we met that he was ready to stop focusing so much on work and start focusing more on his life.