He says it is harmless and is only fantasy as there is no touching involved. I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging.



For me and the woman I'm in love with, we CAN discuss it without breaking down into spittle and hate. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. Good communication, love, support and understanding are the things you should consider. He can't just put his shoes on and go. Keep things going and see what happens. Word to the wise, wait a day or two.
But the loneliness and the hours ER shifts are taken everything I had left in me. My beliefs have changed several times in my life, but not those things, so my interfaith marriage has lasted 25 years. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member. It is amazing how different values and outlooks, interpersonal relationships can be from family to family.
Log in or sign up in seconds. Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. In particular, I relate to the fact that I'm feeling more like a booty call these days and it's making me start to resent him. You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies. Now we go out to eat or to watch a play or do something together about once every week or two, which is a nice change compared to once a year. In each case, you should also consider how this will affect your families. We would have a movie night at his apartment on a Saturday night and the next few days would be great. Also, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss.